Some monogamous men are such fickle creatures. Let’s dive into what just happened on Bumble. Now to give context I had went out with this guy many moons ago. While being cute he was also clearly out for one thing which was sex at the time. I let him take me out once but I felt nothing. I actually try to see if he had “hook-up” potential and that attempt fell flat on its face. We didn’t speak again until today.

First let’s start with the fact he didn’t even remember me. Can you imagine if I would have slept with him. Yuck I would have been pissed by the lack of memory. He then goes further on to say he has a gf now. So I’m thinking ” Maybe he’s polyamorous now.” So when I further inquired about his situation he plain out told me he was cheating. I told him and I quote ” I cannot fuck with fickle monogamous men.” His response ” K”. Immediately unmatched and never matching again if I see him.

This shit right here is the reason why I know my ex is going to cheat again. Men like this only care about what they want and blatantly disregard their significant others. Not out of pure evil but they are too chicken shit to speak on their needs freely without fear of judgement. In other words, they pussy. Do I feel for the woman in their lives ? Sure and its a shame the thing monogamy can cause a person to do in order to make it “work”.