Dating While Poly : Ghosting

If you didn’t by chance read my two previous post about the mutual that I am suppose to meet, check out Present Day page. Welp, he has official ghosted me a week before my arrival. I honestly am stunned to really give a in depth post about said ghosting but here is what I am learning.

  1. Just because someone ghost doesn’t mean you did anything wrong.
  2. If someone doesn’t want to properly communicate for any reason, don’t try to make sense of it. Move on.
  3. Depending on said behavior before ghosting will determine if they will be allowed to explain themselves if they return.

I guess to say the least I am extremely disappointed with this mutual. He made me feel things I haven’t felt since my ex. Also huge plus, he was polyamorous. So you can imagine when all this started happening how my heart was just hurt and broken. He didn’t seem like the type to do this considering we have been consistent for a month and didn’t give off that type of energy. However who is say what happened here.

What I do know is that there is more then one male mutual in Chicago and I intend to be the inner hoe that I have been keeping hidden. I need a break from trying to take anyone seriously to only be disappointed like this. I hope that one day this mutual and myself can speak again but if we don’t I will say this about him. He is handsome, unique, goofy and most of all understanding. I wish him nothing but the best but deep down I hope he comes back. I guess if its meant to be right ?

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