Tag: Dating while poly
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Poly Lesson #1: Have Some Fun
I can’t speak for everyone but I tend to find that most polyamorous people I know happen to be demisexual sluts. Shout to my mutual @homesliceproductions from Tik Tok for introducing that term to me. It makes dating especially casual hookups hard for me. Never had good experiences with them except for a few days…
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Cowboy/Cowgirl
So shout to @polypages on Tik Tok for explaining this term and signs to look out for. This is my first time encountering this term. It basically means that a monogamous person is dating a poly person and think if they love them enough they will flip said poly person. Basically “lassoing” the person so…
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TT LIVE Chronicles #3
This will be a quick post. I swear people that are treating poly like a trend make me want to vomit. I was actually invited to this LIVE unexpected it. I was on my LIVE, streaming and talking to the 5 people in the room. The invite popped up and I usually say no but…
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The One That Got Away
Before my big time ex in 2019 and the world wasn’t at a stand still, I use to participate in improv theater. By then I was married and we were trying to give monogamy a real shot. This was a super fun and special time in my life. I was considering comedy/acting so I was…
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Dating While Poly: Frustration
Frustration is a understatement. Let me be straight up about my ideal setup. I want a husband and a boyfriend. Simple enough I thought at first. When I met my ex in 2019 I thought that I would achieve this goal and obviously couldn’t be more wrong. Now the guy who has made me feel…
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Dating while Poly: Ignorance
I never realized how misinformed the general public was until various shows tried to depict “polyamory” . So far ever show I have watched has fallen short. Another post for another day. I only mention it because it is one of the biggest catalyst to the problems we have in our community. Hypersextualization is the…
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Don’t Overthink It
So I mentioned that I’m heading out to Chicago to meet a potential partner. So far we have been talking everyday without skipping a beat until this past couple of days Now I want to point out that he just moved into his apt and has a daughter so he could just be purely exhausted.…