One of the most frustrating things in the world is when my profile says exactly what I am and what I prefer and people still ask:

• What are you looking for ?
• So you just want another man for sex ?
• So you like girls ?

I would list more but I’ve made it a point to remove most of my poor experiences into the sea of forgetfulness.

If men did just a smidgen of research they would know what I was looking for. I don’t mind questions that relate to what my current situation is however when it comes to the basics if ENM, I’m not a teacher. Sure I have this blog to express myself and my experiences, its not however a manual. I expect when men message me they have a basic understanding of ENM and be respectful of my time.