So January 2021 my ex blocked me off of everything at this point and rightfully so (tons of missing context here but long story short bipolar disorder)

After that I really gave dating apps a true shot. Unfortunately most of 2021, they all turned out to be dead ends of ignorant horny men. Even apps like Feelds, which is geared toward peeps like myself was a epic fail. So late 2021 I officially threw my hands up. I chalked it up to my ex being a mistake anyway and that God was punishing me for being a “super sinner”

Social media is a interesting place. I always heard people talk about how they met on (insert random social media here). The story usually goes something like this. Tons of content interaction ( likes, comments, etc) Then the infamous sliding into the DMs occur and if your lucky you talk off the app.

While this was happening to me a few times off of Tik Tok (all nice guys by the way) nothing seem to stick. Part So one day I did a post pretty much exhausting the point that polyamory isn’t all about sex. One of my mutual crushes ( mutual = friend) on Tik Tok left a comment saying he agreed with my sentiment. I saw the comment, sided eyed it and moved on. ” There is no way this hot guy is really into poly. Most of them get it wrong anyway.” Next thing I knew he was liking other more in depth takes I had on polyamory. Now he had my attention

So I decided that I had nothing to lose and slid into his DMs. Next thing I know I’m making a trip to Chicago later this month to meet him. What a difference a year can make. Who would have thought ? Am I precautious and take it day by day and step by step. So far though its going in a great direction.